October 2006 Archives

Nice ? =P
This is what I called my SPOILS OF WAR~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Had my first local trail today.
Well, it was FUN~ Better than SEX!!!! definitely~
I like it! To be fast, to be furious, to tackle each and every terrain, to climb each slope and wall~ to go thru the mud patch~ and definitely - to FALL!
Had 4 falls today, my bike and me survived it all, not to mention some scratches to both of us~
Well the stickers on my plastic suffered quite a bit, so it is time to get a spare set, just in case!

After that we went to wash bike then home sweet home lo. So nothing much actually.
Riding took up most of the day! But it was all worth it!

Hopefully there will be more to come!
And did i mention that I saw a pretty chick at the trails today ? Oh boy she's so gorgeous~ But too bad she's been taken , if not... if not i also lan lan, cause i never go get her number =p, i also wont la, i just don't approach gals like that! FATE WHERE ARE YOU?

k la , time to zzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Before I go , show you the pic of my ride, I like to ride her all day long =P

Was chatting with an online friend last night.
And she told me she did something wrong, so I was like, "nah, its not what you think, don't think of it that way..."
She reacted in a big way after i said what i said...
She was like, "DUN FUCKING TRY TO BRAINWASH ME!!!!!"
And of course I wasn't, neither did i even try to... ok ok, consciously i never, maybe i did sub-consciously....

So guys, did you ever think that sometimes the alternatives that you given others, your views/opinions, might actually be an attempt to "brainwash" the person ?
I thought about it for a long while and I kinda agree that whenever we tell people what we think, feel, give them advice, we are actually telling them what we think is right but might not be right to them...

So are we right to do this ? or are we just wrong in the very first place ?

I am starting to get confuse... really confuse....

1. Guys hate sluts.

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems by his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of you.

I know how the smell of the corridor smells like...
The medicine-filled air, that smells of loneliness and hopelessness....

Anyone that walked thru' this corridor usually am sad or at the very least worried...
But of course some of them , at the end of the ordeal, came out as a happy one.

I was there 3-4 days in a row, always there for more than 12 hours each day, by the side of my dying father...
Hoping that he would pull thru, be fine and don't leave us...

In the end, off he went, after midnight, in my arms... I watched him pass me by, to another world...
I knew he had his wishes fulfilled, he saw my mum before he left... and that to him, is the final piece to his jigsaw puzzle and so off he went, without anymore regrets...

Off he went.... and so too does the smell of the corridor of the hospital....

(just watched this documentary last night which detailed how these volunteers help out in the hospice and I remembered clearly what one of them said, "Its a matter of time before they go, we just doing what we could to carry out their last wishes, to help them walk their remaining journey in this world"
The show certainly remind me much of my dad who had passed away...)