INFJ: "Inner Nuances Fosters Journeys"

You're an INFJ
INFJ
You're future-oriented, and direct your insight
and inspiration towards understanding yourself
and thereby, human nature...your work mirrors
your integrity....reflects your inner
ideals...solitude and a chance to concentrate
thoroughly on what counts most is important to
you...you like to quietly exert your
influence...you have deeply felt compassion and
desire harmony with others...you'll go to great
lengths to avoid conflict...

You understand the complexities existing within
people...you don't call a lot of attention to
yourself...you like to let your accomplishments
do your talking....you look for a small group of
people who understand and appreciate you and hang
with them....you're gentle and don't like
violence...

You'd rather have a few close friends instead of
be at a big party ...you'll do well in college as
your "day in the sun" where your brains count
more than they did in that ol' shallow high
school...you want your work to contribute to the
general good...

You have a strong love of learning...you get
along well with teachers and older people...you
write well 'cause you can formulate your ideas
clearly... you have integrity and
consistency....you don't like the "politics" at
work.. you'd rather be able to talk honestly with
people than "play games." (you still play games
on the Storm Palace, but would rather
post! :) )...intuitive insights into
situations...

You're quiet yet persistent and determined in
your efforts toward long-term goals....when you
work toward your vision, you win cooperation
rather than demand it...even if you don't lead
others, you still facilitate things... leisure
time usually is solitary or involves the company
of others particularly important to you...you're
perfectly happy just sitting around with close
buds discussing feelings...you'd rather have
longstanding friends than make many new
acquaintences...these deep friendships are
important to you, even though you may not share
much about yourself...

You become attracted to someone special and
prefer this one deep one over many superficial
ones...this depth, though, is only partially
communicated outwards...you like a
regular "date", revisiting the place where you
first met your mates, or doing other symbolic
things that help to continue or confirm the
existence of the bond.

You may have an ideal standard of the way love
is...you're often disappointed when reality
doesn't quite match up....you want to give love
and be loved... you enter into relationships just
to be cared for...even when the other person
isn't right for you and you know it....when you
meet the right person, though, you are quick to
get involved with them and make it a serious
one... you'll end other relationships to be with
this "right" one....

When you're scorned, you take it personally and
retreat inward...you may obsess about the
relationship and your role in the failure...you
blame yourself for a failed relationship and
might even need a period of mourning.

You should watch out for becoming blinded by the
idealism of your visions or if you focus only on
your ideas...this could make you ignore reality
when it contradicts those lofty ideals...you
could stay with a belief or commitment beyond
what the facts would support (stubborn?)...you're
loyal...

Also, you could lose out if you don't act
assertively and are reluctant to intrude on
others with your ideas...as a result, you could
keep many important things to yourself...you'll
then feel that your ideas are underestimated or
unappreciated...maybe you should develop
political saavy or assertiveness to sell your
ideals...finally, you should be forthright with
criticism of others...you're always doing the "If
you can't say some- thing nice...." stuff. After
you hold it inside, you'll blow up eventually.

INFJ: "Inner Nuances Fosters Journeys"

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