Q) What are the 4 characteristics/criteria u look for in your future partner?
a) her character
Definitely plays a big big part, appearance will wrinkle, will grow old with time, but character won't.
I don't need an angel, just someone that is caring enough, loves me, respects elders, fillial, will do.
Dunno why, but it seems like I like girls that are independent and got their old views. Not the submissive kind.
But I also believe girls should be a bit weak at times, cos these are the times I can protect her *hehehe*
Girls are meant to be protected anyway.
b) her appearance
Importantly I must see liao shun(4) yan(3).
No need chio, pretty, watever, of course if it is it will be a additional bonus loh. Face can't stay forever, but personality will!
c) her educational level
does it make a diff?
d) her background
I used to think no diff la.
But my previous r/ships tells me that it does make a difference to how a couple can communicate...
sad to admit....
i come from a shit background, so who would I expect to be with me for the rest of my life?????
no one in fact.... why be with me ? and suffer? that's not the life i wanna give and neither the life she would want.....
this is Singapore mind you, not some country side....
Hock ah,
been yonder years since i visited your blog, only when i know that things are clear that i decided to catch up a bit on your life. anyway cant help it but want to comment on what you feel abt gals, abt how they do not want to suffer with you. Dont you get it, i didnt leave you becoz you are poor. If thats the case, i wouldnt be with you in the 1st place. i left becoz.....you should know better. its not the amt of money you have or the luxury you can provide (although some ppl consider them). Rather, its abt how you handle your finance, come on hock, dont blame your circumstances, you cant change certain things. One thing you can do though is to change yourself. saying this coz i am really concerned abt the way you view gals, hock dont blame your family backgrd.
I know Rong..... I never blame you anyway.... just that why we can't just try harder and we just let things past us by....
till this stage whereby nothing can be done? at least not now.....